COUPLES THERAPY IN HOUSTON, TX
Therapy for couples with intense lives who want to be a team again
You remember many times when you were so connected, best friends, and “that couple” others admired.
Then all the demands of life started to overshadow your closeness, and you’ve become more like roommates. You argue more with the same disagreements cropping up because you can’t seem to resolve big or even small differences.
Yet, you want to learn how to restore the loving and supportive togetherness you cherished. You long to to return to all the joy that was the hallmark of being “that couple.”
Through couples therapy, you can:
Move away from cycles of repeated arguments and learn to create new understanding of yourself and your partner
Resolve issues, old and new, with greater appreciation of each partner’s perspective and deeper feelings
Shift the way you think about stress and challenging events, allowing better choices both as a couple and as individuals
Manage stressful situations as a team
Recover from emotionally hurtful events and move forward with renewed connection
Proven Approaches that Help Couples Recover Their Connection
We bring years of training and experience using scientifically based, highly successful methods of relationship therapy, namely EFT and ACT.
Emotionally Focused Therapy
Years ago, couples counseling consisted primarily of teaching couples how to talk to one another. The success was limited and rarely lasting.
Emotionally Focused Therapy, commonly known as EFT, offers couples a strongly research-supported and scientifically-based roadmap to recovery from relationship distress.
Importantly, the process is gentle and affirming of each partner’s uniqueness and his or her desires to be a loving partner.
Through EFT:
The cycle of arguing, distancing and disconnection is identified as the problem — not either of you!
Each partner gains a new understanding of his or her style of connecting with their partner, which can hold the keys to lasting and positive change.
Couples gain a new framework of communication, but from the all-important perspective of deeply understanding your partner and yourself.
Acceptance and Commitment (ACT) Therapy
In my years of working with couples, I’ve watched them struggle with strong emotions and how to better navigate challenging situations. To help you become more skillful in coping with difficult events, I weave into our work the research-supported strengths of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, commonly called ACT.
ACT helps you fully make space for your inner experience rather than attempt (often endlessly) to control feelings or situations.
In ACT couples counseling, you’ll learn:
To slow down your emotional reactions to events or troubling thoughts
Greater acceptance of circumstances or feelings such as anxiety or uncertainty
To allow the feelings to occur rather than spending countless energy in suppressing or avoiding those thoughts or beliefs
To develop greater compassion toward your own challenges — and those facing your partner.
When something needs to shift… now.
Intensive couples therapy can accomplish in a few days what typically takes months of weekly couples therapy.
COUPLES THERAPY INTENSIVES
Couples Therapy Specialties
Frequently Asked Questions About Couples Therapy
These are the most common questions we are asked about Houston couples therapy at Heights Couples Therapy. If you have further questions, we welcome you to visit our main FAQ page or ask our Client Intake Team through our Contact page.
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Your therapist will spend your intake session getting more information about your relationship, your concerns, and what you hope to achive. They'll explain the therapy approaches they'll use, such as the Acceptance and Commitment (ACT) or Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), so you'll have a better understanding of what will come next. Your therapist will use a combination of techniques to personalize couples therapy for you. Each couple is unique, and by combining expertise in multiple therapeutic modalities, your counselor will make sure your counseling sessions are the right fit for you and your partner.
In future sessions, you'll examine relationship patterns and the underlying emotions that drive them. You'll learn communication skills that will help you to understand each other, building mutual empathy and understanding. You'll learn new ways to handle conflict and create closeness, rebuilding your relationship through sincere, vulnerable repair efforts.
Your therapist will approach each session with the goal of helping each of you to work on your relationship, using their expertise and experience to come up with the best possible approaches to support you both in building a rewarding, healthy relationship. -
At Heights Couples Therapy, relationship support is what we do best.
We are a focused therapy practice, with counselors capable of providing both individual and couples therapy who specialize in:
Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) for couples
Gottman therapy for couples
Support for dual career
Couples counseling for parents
Support for parents of special needs children
Counseling for couples navigating grief or loss
Premarital counsleing
Couples therapy for neurodivergent couples
Breakup therapy
Non-monogamous couples therapy
Betrayal recovery counseling
Therapy for spiritual and religious couples
Individual relationship therapy
Multicultural and cross-cultural couples therapy
LGBTQ couples counseling
Discernment counseling
Couples therapy intensives
And more!
Whatever you and your partner(s) are going through, we have counselors who are both trained and experienced in providing support to Houston couples experiencing the same challenges.
Our Houston counselors take a non-judgmental, supportive, and empathetic approach to every relationship. We stay up to date on the evolving world of relationship support, ensuring you receive the best couples therapy possible.
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If you or your partner aren’t sure you want to continue the relationship, or one of you is fairly certain you're ready to leave but the other is still interested in working on the relationship, discernment counseling can help.
Discernment counseling functions differently from couples counseling. It takes place over one to five sessions, and is a space for each of you to work individually with an experienced relationship counselor to gain clarity and understanding over where you are in the relationship, and what you want the future to look like. After each set of individual sessions, you and your partner will come together to discuss what you've determined.
By the end of discernment counseling, you will have a clear picture on whether you're ready to separate, if you'd like to keep working on the relationship, or if you need more time before deciding.
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Couples therapy can help couples in crisis, but they aren't the only ones who can benefit.
You can use couples therapy as a space to:
Reinforce your bond and get on the same page before a major life change like marriage, having a child, or retirement.
Expand your abilities to communicate and connect with each other.
Learn how to help each other when one partner is going through something difficult.
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If your partner won't go to couples therapy, you can still pursue therapy that will help you work on your relationship.
Individual relationship therapy is a space to explore your role in relationship patterns past and present, allowing you to bring insights and skills back to your relationship. You can also learn more about what you want and need out of a relationship, build your self-esteem, learn to manage your anxieties, and heal from past relationship wounds.
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Safety is paramount in couples counseling. Both partners need to be safe with each other before couples therapy can help.
Couples therapy in Houston is not a good option for couples dealing with:
Abuse
An ongoing affair
Serious mental health concerns
Serious, active addiction
If your therapist determines that couples therapy isn't the right fit for you, your therapist will help you pursue better options like individual therapy, domestic violence resources, and/or substance abuse support.
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We do not accept insurance and are not in-network providers. If you need therapy covered by your insurance, we recommend contacting your insurance company for a list of their providers.
Before starting couples therapy, check with your insurance to see if they reimburse for CPT code 90847 with a diagnosis. Often, insurance doesn’t cover couples or family therapy unless it’s deemed medically necessary for a diagnosed patient.
If you have out-of-network coverage (usually a PPO plan), we can provide a monthly superbill for you to request partial reimbursement from your insurance company. If you are using out-of-network coverage, your insurance plan will require us to identify a “patient” and provide a diagnosis.
Meet Our Team
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Dr. Laura Spiller, Psychologist
Dual-career professional couples, affair recovery, discernment counseling, blended families, business partners, relationships affected by anxiety or ADHD
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Charisse Ferrer, M.Ed., LPC-S
Multi-cultural & cross-cultural relationships, grief, loss, and life transitions, first generation immigrants
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Dr. Rachel Floyd, Psychologist
Couples, high-functioning professionals, men navigating modern masculinity, women’s issues (including PMDD & PD)
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Gabriel Gonzalez, LCSW
Couples & relationships, LGBTQIA+, Executive stress, First Responders & Health Care Workers, Non-monogamy/BDSM/Kink
Bilingual (English/Spanish)
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Dr. Bojun Hu
Dual-Career Couples, Complex Trauma & PTSD, Multicultural Couples, Grief & Loss, LGBTQIA+ Couples, Spirituality & Life Path
Bilingual (English/Mandarin)
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Amy Shahda, MA, LMFT Associate (Supervised by Nadine Greer, LMFT-S)
Families and couples with children with special needs (Autism, ADHD, Developmental Delays), Parenting, Couples navigating neurodivergence
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Rachel Goldstein, MA, LMFT Associate (Supervised by Nadine Greer, LMFT-S)
Couples & relationships, parenting struggles, perinatal mental health, infertility, workplace challenges, grief & loss
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Emily Daily, MEd, LPC Associate (Supervised by Charisse Ferrer, LPC-S)
Couples & relationships, chronic illness and traumatic injury, betrayal recovery, childhood abuse/neglect
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Nosson Dubin, LMSW (Supervised by Brittany Burch, LCSW-S)
Couples communication & conflict, religious and Jewish couples, leaders and entrepreneurs, parenting challenges, life transitions and major decisions
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Bailey Franklin, LMFT
LGBTQIA+ Relationships & Sexuality, Mixed-Orientation Couples, Non-Monogamy & Polyamory, Infidelity & Betrayal Recovery, Childhood Trauma & Family Addiction
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Sarah McKay, PhD
Premarital Therapy, New Couples, Anxiety & OCD, Depression & Bipolar Disorder, Young Adults & Life Transitions
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Relationship therapy and couples therapy in Houston

