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Should You Stay If Your Partner Won’t Change? How Individual Therapy Can Help You Know
Wondering if you should stay or go when your partner won’t change? Learn how Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and individual therapy can help you understand your relationship cycle, know your role, and find clarity, even if your partner won’t come to therapy with you.

Loving Someone With Anxiety or Addiction? Why Individual Therapy May Be the Best Next Step
Feel frustrated that your partner won’t go to therapy? Learn how individual therapy can help you cope, connect, and set healthy boundaries, even if they never join you.

Why You Shut Down During Conflict—and What Your Relationship Needs Instead
Do you tend to retreat during conflict? Learn how EFT therapy helps withdrawers soothe their partner and build calmer, more connected relationships.

Why You Keep Having the Same Fight with Your Partner (and How to Stop the Cycle)
Stuck in the same argument with your partner? Learn how EFT therapy helps couples break the pursuer/withdrawer cycle and emotionally reconnect.